Sexual Intimacy

Sexual Intimacy is to be shared between a man and a women who are married. Sexual intimacy comes with a lot of emotions and it is best to be married and committed to that one person that we share that intimacy with.

Men and women are very different when it comes to sexual intimacy. Men are more likely to be aroused quicker and women take a bit longer to become aroused. A quote that was used was “Men are like microwaves and women are like crock pots” This is so true! Men can be aroused by the smallest thing and want to be intimate however women take a while to reach that point. This brings me to my next discovery. Men want to be sexually active to feel close, safe, and connected to a person however women want to first feel close, safe, and connected before they are sexually active. This can be really frustrating in a relationship however once you get that cycle rolling each partner is receiving what they want and need to feel good in their relationship.

There are many blessings that come from the differences men and women have when it comes to sexual intimacy. Some of these include:

-  All needs can eventually be met

-        -   Helps us understand each other

-        -   We learn to be selfless and put the needs of the other person before our own

-        -   We learn to communicate better (if we can communicate in the awkward intimate setting of the bedroom we sure can communicate about other things)

-          - We learn to develop self-control

-          - Trust can be built

If we want to experience sexual intimacy that will be satisfy both partners the most important thing to remember is that we must thing of the other person while being intimate. This will almost always guarantee that both partners will be satisfied.