Statistically showing after 2 years, 70% of people regret
their decision of getting a divorce. This proves that people wish they would
have not gotten a divorce a stuck it out. So why do people get a divorce in the
first place? The answer is simple; most divorces are due to pure selfishness.
There are situations in which divorce is necessary however.
Here is a 3 part test for those seeking to determine if
ending a marriage is justified:
1. Prolonged Difficulties – Try to repair and reduce these
problems
- Go to counseling; try to get rid of the
problem
- Try everything possible to save the
marriage
2. Apparently Irredeemable Relationship – Little hope to
repair
3. Destruction of Human Dignity – Threatens to destroy
dignity
Lose of worth
Insulting
Belittlement
Divorce isn't just something you do to escape a problem or
issue. Marriage is a commitment and you have made covenants with God regarding
your marriage and you can’t just end it whenever marriage gets hard.